Necrotic Obsession

here's my rant why do people not understand how hard it is to end a 3 year relationship? i broke up with my man almost a month ago and nobody seems to really realize that it's killing me to know that someone i still care about is hurting so much. especially when i know that all i have to do is take him back and he'll be happy. but i can't do that cause then i'll be miserable.

and another thing if two people are sleeping together but not in a realationship shouldn't they still share the calling responsiblities or is it supposed to be completely up to the girl?

one last thing. why do guys never call when they say they will?

i feel better now.

( about the calling thing and random fucking) guys can be stupid sometimes..matters how much he likes you i suppose.

( now about your first question) But don't take anybody back if your just going to get hert,(again) b/c even if hes happy, the loves not totaly there, and its a waste. So just chill, have fun, and don't worry about it. He will calm down like the rest of them. And even if he doesn't..hay not your problem. Don't feel to bad about it, b/c human emotions suck sometimes and you have bigger fish to cook.

hay just trying to help, if i did not.. me sorry...

you've helped alot. just getting it out there helped quite a bit.
i've decided to let the guy i was sleeping with call me, and if he doesn't
his loss. as for my ex we're gonna be friends so that's cool. i hope he finds a new GF soon.
nyx

I'll call you if we have sex! Really! Scout's honor!

ren you just made me feel so much better. i'm giggling my ass off right now. at least i got more poetry out of this.
god i missed this board.

Well, first of all, who caused the break up and what happened if you don't mind my asking? I recently went through a similar situation, and I may be able to answer the other side of it.

Hm~m.. I have to disagree with that. They call sometimes. Like.. when they want sex from us. Or maybe money.

well i stopped calling him. then two weeks later i'm walking down the street and my phone rings. it's him. we talked for a bit and i ended up at his house. turns out the reason why he wasn't calling was because he was working all the time. we spent the last two day together (cept for when i had to work). now i wanna start taking steps to us being a couple but at the same time, it's only been a month since i broke up with T. and i know i've still got alot of emotional baggage from that. i know what i want to do
and i know what i should do. i guess all i can do is sit back and enjoy the time i spend with him and see where it goes.
thanx for listening to my rambles.

I always call my Bitches.. I got a couple that get paid weekly and a couple that get paid every 2 week's I Leaving them hanging just long enough to get there next pay check cashed and then the fun begin's....