Necrotic Obsession

well my bf and i have been together for well over a year and have been super close for about five years now. before will started "dating" he wanted to talk to me all the time and everyone else got put on hold but now its totally opposite. i get put on hold while he makes time for everyone else. usually i would just be like ok w/e but he just makes it more and more apparent, if i stand beside him or something he will actually start talking over me to his friend about nothing. i can only try not to let it bother me for so long because this is just getting plain riduclous. he expects me to just go on and act like nothing is bothering me when he is whats bothering me. when its a girl i just get jealous and he stops talking to them because he thinks i would hurt them or something so now its just guys he puts me off for which is funny to my friends. he swears up and down that he does love me and its even more so when we aren't going to school but now that school is back i feel like i'm just losing him.

whelp not sure if this is a late post and it will be effective or not but i thought my 2 cents would be worth throwing at ya

based off of that info alone i think that now that he has you after all those years he again has time for his friends but no he should be putting you on hold so much and the rude talking over thing id get slapped for personally. school I'm assuming as in college just to clarify if you both attend the same one and you feel like your losing touch with him the whole same school thingy will just increase future paranoia and academic stress, but if you don't both go to the same school then nvm about that. You should try to get a sit down time with him and express your concerns with him and just try to work things out before taking any actions.

until i get more info thats all i got

actually your post isn't techinically "late" in the sense i'm still with him. my concerns about the situation have indeed changed though, i get that yes it is a problem, no he doesn't seem to be worried about the effects of certain acts. i do get that he wants to spend time with his friends and do all that stuff i just get annoyed about that always being the case. i have spoken with him about such things as this because i prefer to be very open and honest with him and hopefully he will be with me to. he merely decided that i needed to back off his choices and stop being "clingly" which i don't believe i am. i try that and after a day of acting like him to him he straighten up real quick. now there are just these minor flare ups but i think he is finally realizing what i've been trying to get through his thick skull.

give him head 3x a day.. youll have a nice BF real fast .. esp if you stop doing it till he does what you say..

somehow i don't think that will get my point across

somehow i never really cared though, its not like its gonna last..

one of you will realise the whole thing is a mistake.. and be broken up in less then a year.. dont take it too hard, its normal for people who hook up young and stay together for a prolonged time.

uh huh..