Necrotic Obsession

Okay so this guy asks me to "the concert in the parks" at the botanical gardens. Says he can get in free. I was like sure why not... He says he will pick me up at 4pm and i'm like okay. He picks me up and i have to lug a stroller a car seat and my son to this place where he can pick up tickets. I have to wait in the sweltering heat for 45 min, without a/c and then he offers to take me to this chicken place. My dumbass decides to order jalepeno poppers... and then we have to go to BUM FUCK EGYPT to meet some dude so that we can car pool to TIMBUTTFUCKINGTOO so that we can take a shuttle bus to the gardens.

He failed to mention any of this to me in advance. I find out as he is telling me to move the carseat 3 fucking times *its not easy doing a carseat either* and then moving the stroller and my red faced screaming son. Well we walk about a block to this shuttle bus and fucking the stupid stroller wont fit in there. so I have to make like 5 people wait for like 5 mins while I undo my son, pull the shit out of the stroller, and fold up the stroller and put it in my lap with my son. Then I realize I dont have my fucking phone.

That was the straw that broke the camels back. We go about a mile to the spot where we get off in 90+ heat and I am like dude I had my phone and its gone. I had him call it but it wasnt there so I'm like I have to go back. I get everything ready and the fucking shuttle bus is gone. All the dude is worried about is wear his food is. I give him his food and borrow the other guys keys and proceed to walk a mile back to wear that guy parked. I yacked in front of some little kids who freaked out and then I started seeing stars and was sweating like a stuck pig. I stopped like 3 times, and finally made it to find that my phone was on the fucking ground. It was a good thing I went back cuz that could have been bad.

I said FUCK THIS, and called for someone to pick me up. I had to fucking wait for 45 min to get a ride and then walk a block for them to find me then go get the car seat and stroller .... Then drive back to the gardens and walk about a 1/4 mile to find some guy in a crowd of like 2000 people. I didn't have the guys number and my "date" wasnt answering the phone. My "date" was doing a charity event so I can't really knock his balls for that but FUCK DUDE, don't invite me to a date with MY FUCKING SON, and NOT TELL ME WHAT IS GOING ON.

I'm flexible to a certain degree, but seriously I can't deal with that many fucking changes... HE NEVER TOLD ME THAT THE STUPID CONCERT DIDNT START TILL 8pm. I would have fucking waited, and fucking drove my god damn self there if I knew all the shit he had to go through to fucking get there. UGH. It would be different if I didnt have so much luggage and a kid. It would have been fine if I would have gotten a baby sitter, but NOOOOOOOOO....

Theres no such thing as a free lunch.... LOL It would have even been okay, if I hadn't have dropped my stupid phone in the chaos of moving the carseat and stroller from one car to the other. I'm so fucking exhausted right now its unbelievable.

BTW, I was actually in a good mood when the day started. Go figure.

my date

did due know in advance you had a kid? or did he just assume it would be you and him?

You're not paying the girl eight bucks an hour to watch your kid...

you're paying eight dollars an hour to maintain your sanity.


remember that next time.

He knew I had my kid. He acted like he would help out, then at the last minute he tells me I have to do all this shit.
There probably wont be a next time with him
I will get a sitter next time I go out though. I need a break from my adorable monster.

I thought you were nailing some chick with nice boobage?

thats on the side, and I'm working on it!
I went to her house like 3 days ago, and was all pumped,
but then she offered me a 4bar and I slept like a baby. LOL

I'm trying to have multiple peoples...

I've always known deep down that I was meant to be in 1+ relationships.
When I figured out it has a name *polyamory* and its not bad to like minded people I was like OMFG!

I would be down to try a swinger party too. It may be a while before I get the guts though.

i just spoke about polyamorous relationships the other day. i was unsure the name for that!

i wish i could be like that seems pretty unstressful :S
but i cant/could never! :/ lol

I always wondered why I can't/won't stay faithful. Then I realized when I moved back home that there are people out there who are OKAY with you messing or flirting with other people. Just have to set up basic rules. Example: You cant have unprotected sex, you cant have sex with them till I meet them and say its okay.

I tried it with my last b/f and it didnt work out. He wasnt really willing to try. Meh, its okay though just means we werent meant to be.

you just prefer to be a whore..

its that simple..

fucking around is all good..

But jebus alive.. stop trying to coin it as something thats something everyone does, or that its your destiny.

You like dick, and by lots of different men.. the best part is that you dont charge

but what happens though relationship wise.. do you always have to find a person thats into other people or what it has me curious because my brain cant concentrate on more than one person at a time!

You my good sir, are an uncultured, ignorant sheep.

I don't ask for recognition or approval.

I am into MFF. There are many forms of it, and I'd rather be open about it than lie about it like all the "monogomous, monotheist, monotone" NORMAL PEOPLE. I am different from the herd. I don't think its right for everyone, and I think you need to check yourself, because you don't know anything about this subject apparantly.

Your in the part of the forum where its my home turf..

you come here telling us how you like to fuck around and cant control your urges to stay loyal to a single partner ..

if you had actually comprehended what i wrote too, youd realise i find it great that your a whore..

too many girls are cheap with it or too expensive.. you give it up for free to lots of people..

thats great.

Now piss on out of rants you dumb slag, and preach to those who care about how honest you are because you admit you cant commit or dont want to be tied down, or what ever excuse you have..

And please, do yourself a favour, stop with the lame lines from the 80s .. check yourself?? apparently you didnt check yourself either..

Your in rants now, go read the rules.

I probably should have chickity checked myself, because I seem to have come down with a severe case of 'wrecked self'. Oh dear.

I knew a guy who had 3 gfs. They all knew each other and were all in a relationship together... It was interesting, to say the least. I am all for being open and honest. I actually sit down with the person I'm dating and we decide the "rules" for that relationship. These change as the relationship progresses, but we talk about it and address it.


I can understand that some people have more than one partner, but I am... I'm just not that way, I guess. For me, it's one person at a time. I don't knock those who have more than one person, but I just don't think it's for me. I don't think people who choose to be in a monogamous relationship should be ridiculed any more than I think those who choose to *honestly* be in a polyamorous relationship should be. The key is that you should be honest with your partner(s) in whatever you choose to do. As my dad says, "If you're grown, then you don't have to lie." Another family saying: "if you have to lie about it, then you probably shouldn't be doing it."