Advice is needed

Euphoric_Endeavor · **Posted:** Tue Jan 13, 2009 8:32 pm

okay, so this is gonna seem a little blah and boring, but i've never had this problem before. and i figured, i'm new and i'd like any advice right now.. <P> I'm going to be 20 on friday, and i know that's not old, but everyone keeps telling me i look older. and i'm just wondering if it has to do with all the stress and responsibility i keep piling on myself. also, i've been thinking a lot about when i used to be deep into the goth subculture, and now i'm very Corporate Cathy, and i don't like it. it seems like i was so much happier while i was trying to make sure i could keep enough black eyeliner in the house to kill an army(and i succeeded). but now all i keep thinking about is how much i miss being a "kid", going to school, and just hanging out with people who have all moved on to better things, while i'm just stuck in this never ending loop of sorrow. i feel depressed, not like suicidal depressed just very down in the dumps depressed, and forgotten and lonely. and i know that i can make a ton of new friends on here, and that's one reason i joined and because i have a really great friend here already, you all know him as Arden Linoge. but, i just think i need some advice.
what do you suggest i do to get out of this funk and be happy again??

Renfield · **Posted:** Tue Jan 13, 2009 8:43 pm

cobweb09 · **Posted:** Wed Jan 14, 2009 2:21 am

i got no advice to give
but ive been through similar situations like urs before. (just 2 weeks ago, actually)
im 22 and i just finished college. and the fact that i have to find a suitable job for the future creeps the hell out of me.
i was "goth-like" back in highschool n college. but now its different
i gotta accept the fact that im an adult and not a kid anymore.
Ur not the only one, endeavor. its something that almost everyone goes thru.
enjoy ur life, grieving over the fact that ur not a kids anymore will only give u more depression.
and yes take Renfield's advice... Sex will put back that smile in ur face :Obsession:

FAROUT · **Posted:** Wed Jan 14, 2009 7:50 pm

Do the drugs and booze until you forget who you are then the troubles are over.

Or you could get the past out of your head, grow up, because forward is where your going, sounds like you need to get yourself some friends that have something in common with you now. Your young, don't sweat the small shit so much. Be like a Vlasic pickle and chill.

P.S. Welcome to NO, good to have ya.

Euphoric_Endeavor · **Posted:** Wed Jan 14, 2009 11:22 pm

but sex isn't a problem, and that does put a smile on my face. Thanks renfield. and i don't drink or do drugs, i never have. i often wonder if i missed out on anything by being the DD all the time... but.. i just don't like the taste of booze.. and drugs are expensive.. so...
but cobweb, thank you for reminding me that i'm not alone in this shit faze of my life. i'm sure it will get better eventually.

cobweb09 · **Posted:** Thu Jan 15, 2009 2:48 am

Euphoric_Endeavor wrote:

i don't drink or do drugs, i never have.

No wonder u feel depressed n shit, lol ! (j/k)
neways, dont stress the past, man.
its the least you shud worry about.
its whats ahead of you that matters

Translating Slavery · **Posted:** Wed Jan 21, 2009 6:48 am

here's some advice - deal with it. that's life friend. as you grow older, shit changes.

InfiniteChaos · **Posted:** Fri Feb 06, 2009 11:11 pm

Translating Slavery wrote:

here's some advice - deal with it. that's life friend. as you grow older, shit changes.

Spoken in wisdom~

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