Question??? I could use some input

jennybooboo · **Posted:** Mon Jun 09, 2008 3:22 pm

Well a while back I met this guy....He had me at hello so to speak...He was wonderful and great and I enjoyed talking to him...He told me I was the closest thing to perfection on Earth. I tried to expalin to him that I am far from perfect, but he didn't want to believe me. I tried to explain to him that he shouldn't keep me on this pedestal because my balance is not that great and eventually I was going to fall off of it...I also tried to explain to him that when I did fall off of this pedestal he put me on that it was going to devestate him...He told me that it would never happen and that I could never be anything other than perfect to him...Needless to say, I fell off of that pedestal and he's still mad at me...This was months ago and he still won't speak to me...Weird part is shortly after the incident he did speak to me and then all of a sudden quit...I've tried e-mailing him to let him know how sorry I am and that it will never happen again....And still I get nothing...My thing is though he's the one who broke my heart so how can he be mad at me??? I personally think that he's afraid of true happiness and afraid to be with a girl who would have treated him right....I just want to know why he's acting this way??? Is he ever going to forgive me??? I would really appreciate anybody's help with this....Thank you for your time.....

twisteddark · **Posted:** Mon Jun 09, 2008 3:42 pm

ditch him.

you warned him you had faults, he chose to ignore them. to me i dont see why you're apologizing, when you said hes the one that broke your heart. if he's gonna be a dick, and refuse to talk at all then he obviously prefers not to learn from his mistakes. or perhaps maybe the "cold shoulder" is his way of dealing with things. either way he sounds like bad business. good luck.

jennybooboo · **Posted:** Mon Jun 09, 2008 3:56 pm

I understand what you are saying...I was apologizing because after he broke my heart I didn't handle that as maturely as I should have...I was apologizing for letting my anger affect the decision I made towards him...The only thing that really bugs me is that we were best friends before all of this shit happened....He was such a wonderful person....Unfortunately I can't just stop caring about him....I don't know how to turn off my emotions like that...

twisteddark · **Posted:** Mon Jun 09, 2008 4:02 pm

its usually not healthy to turn your feelings off. simple advice on how to get over this, completely ignore him and lose yourself in school, sports, video games, just zone out on activities that will occupy your attention.

jennybooboo · **Posted:** Mon Jun 09, 2008 4:07 pm

I really appreciate the help...It's been a couple of months and I haven't been able to not think about him...It's not even that I'm in love with him, it's that I valued his friendship you know...I'm a very loyal friend and it's hard for me to turn my back on people that I care about....This all happened when I was going through a divorce....And then after it my husband and I worked out our problems and are now happier than ever...I'm actually kind of glad the whole thing happened because if it hadn't my marriage probably wouldn't have worked out....It's kind of ironic that I have him to thank for my husband realizing what a wonderful woman he has in me....I just didn't want to lose him as a friend although I fear that's exactly what is happening....

twisteddark · **Posted:** Mon Jun 09, 2008 4:13 pm

most scars heal with time. some will never fully heal, and may still cause occasional pain.

*shrugs* life can be a bitch. just gotta find the right way of dealing with it.

jennybooboo · **Posted:** Mon Jun 09, 2008 4:17 pm

I will have to say that I agree with you...I understand that some scars will still cause pain once in a while....You are right though, life is a bitch, and there really isn't a damn thing we can do about it....I'm just giong to focus on the husband and the children....They make me happy so why not right????

spadgy · **Posted:** Sat Jun 14, 2008 9:58 am

a solid left hook. that ALWAYS works on guys.

lucidnightmare · **Posted:** Tue Jun 17, 2008 4:06 pm

Never say " I could use some input " around Creep. :Evil fuckin grin:

Mystress_Shaden · **Posted:** Tue Jun 17, 2008 4:42 pm

jennybooboo wrote:

I will have to say that I agree with you...I understand that some scars will still cause pain once in a while....You are right though, life is a bitch, and there really isn't a damn thing we can do about it....I'm just giong to focus on the husband and the children....They make me happy so why not right????

Hun, He's only 20 you cant expect him to have a mature relationship. He's got what he thinks is 4 kids. 2 that we know of for sure. He's never going to grow up till probally after his jail time. This is one chapter of your life where i say keep the great love you have in your husband and Let him go. it's more than obvious that he's let you go considering he never calls or writes anymore. He's got every opprotunity to do both. He'd rather tourcher her with calling the chick in kansas than to call you and tourcher her that way. There's more going on with him than what you know of. he's got alot on his plate and given this current situation of leaving all his friends behind for his gf, that's Toto! He does it to everyone. When he realizes that he's fucked up on a good friend then he will come crawling back to you as always. just give him some time

Dabison · **Posted:** Sat Sep 20, 2008 12:57 am

spadgy wrote:

a solid left hook. that ALWAYS works on guys.

uhh not when they hit back :i:

Valica · **Posted:** Sat Sep 20, 2008 4:44 am

Dabison wrote:

spadgy wrote:

a solid left hook. that ALWAYS works on guys.

uhh not when they hit back :i:

Thats when you put a stop to it and finally hit the mother fucker back until he bleeds and bleeds and he shouts out at you to take him to the ER .. But thats when you say .. NO YOU CAN BLEED FOREVER AND I WOULDN'T GIVE A SHIT!..

Oh and as for the reason this guy is suck a dick is because he was playing you while he said you were his everything and yada yada .. You are so perfect bullshit .. They all do that to get into your pants and then they change .. Very typical of a "Mature " 20 yr old ..

If I were you I would just go and find yourself a nice chick that is hot .. And go somewhere that he is always at .. Make out with her and make him the most jealous guy ever .. Cause later on that night you are the one who is going to make this chick scream all night long .. NOT Him.. Ugh memories ..Memories ..

I'm done .. :im horny:

Dabison · **Posted:** Sat Sep 20, 2008 4:59 am

oh hey for the record i wasn't talking about the guy in the rant section, i was thinking about someone else lol

Valica · **Posted:** Sat Sep 20, 2008 10:49 pm

Oh well I was talking about the guy in the rant section .. I better not ever run into him .. I haven't since the break up and I hope I don't ever in the near future ..

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