Necrotic Obsession

ok, so I decided to go to my ex's house for thanksgiving because I am very close with his family and he and I are on good terms now and they all want me to be there, especially his mom. The problem is that he has a pregnant girlfriend who is jealous of my relationship with his family. They all HATE her and love me...so when he told her I was coming for thanksgiving she started crying. I told him I just wouldn't come if it was gonna be a problem and his mom said she wanted me to be there and she didnt care what Sierra (his gf) thought.

BTW, they all hate her because shes very rude and disrespectful to everyone and she thinks they should like her because she's having his baby..

What should I do???

Go. You were invited. You tried to back out to help things, but they said to please come.

I'm not saying go to spite the pregnant GF, but you should go if invited and feel comfortable doing so.

I have the exact same thing with one of my ex's minus the pregnant GF.
I went to a mutual friends house and he was there with a new girl. He and I always get along and have fun, but aren't going to get back together, and thats a known fact.

Anyhow, we were playing around and he said somethign along the lines of "shut your mouth" I replied "I dont have to shut up, Im not your GF anymore."

His GF immediatly got pissed and said "You two dated?" Got up, grabbed her cigs and stormed out.

I asked him if he was going to go say somethign to her, and he said "no, if she cant handle the fact that you and I are good friends, then i dont want to be with her"

End of that. She cheated on him a couple days later and they were done.

Anyhow...moral of my story i guess.....If she wants to be with him, and you are a part of his life-she will have to either get over it and move on...or nto be with him.

Maybe thats harsh.....but.....oh well

She's got it right. i say go, spend it with the family you've come to be close with. she'll have to fuckign deal or get on.

I would say do not go. Even if not many people like her, I am sure she has many sufferings to her life as well, the hormones in this time of her life are especially harsh. You are putting her into an uncomfortable position. You should abide by her and his wishes, she is the one in the involvement now and it is his family.

(Personally, I would be deeply damaged to the core if this were to occur to me, I would most likely never stop crying over the matter, in reference to being in the shoes of the pregnant girlfriend.)


Also,

You should do whatever you want to do. No matter of the matter.

Be free.

I tell all free Men thinking to Keep away from Woman / Family of Confusion, and not to combine women when a threesome is not possible! "I think that in this case it is not!" I would tell you to limit your thoughts to ones concerning feeding /pleasing and providing shelter for your man! This family Drama is just a prime example of how sick our society has become! How could his father allow this to happen? No Free thinking Man would turn on another while one is seeking true happiness!

yeah, she also doesnt understand that ive been around them for about 4 yrs now, and lived with em for about 2 so were all very close...she's only been in the picture for about 7 mos...

i think im just gonna go cuz they wont even be there now, i guess theyre gonna go to her parents house...even though they dont celebrate thanksgiving....

yeah i live with my ex still and it's kinda akward when the new boy comes over and offers him beer... i get along fine w/ the ex but it's still weird watching the two of them interact

i wouldn't go if they were gonna be there because they are gonna have a baby so they will be a part of each other's lives for a long time and they don't need anything making it even harder, but since they won't be go! eat turkey! i am jealous because i won't get any this year

Go. You Were In fact invited. And if shes not gonna be there, well thats just the bonus :D

hes not happy with her...he loves her cuz shes having his baby, but thats it...he said he wants to kill himself...thank you for answering!

lol. men. Meh well if shes not there go if she is just go anyway.

Ok so I went and I stayed the night on Wednesday because I was doing some of the cooking and wanted to start early..

.anyways, I was bringing in groceries with my brother and my ex's brother and all of a sudden I hear "Hey BITCH", so I turn to look for whoever said it because I was unaware of anyone being around and I see my ex pushing her back telling her to shut up, so I'm like "Did she just say that to me, cuz she's only talking shit cuz she's pregnant and knows I can't do anything about it!" and their friend came up telling me to just ignore her and go on inside, so I did and his mom heard everything and came out and they all got into it! My ex, his mom and Sierra were all screaming and his sister heard and came out and they (my ex and his gf) started on her! Then his sister snapped and went after Sierra and he jumped in and started hitting her, so they started fist-fighting! Finally, they got in the car and left and I felt so bad, but it turned out that they never brought me up during all the yelling...it was all about his sister and his mom..

Anyways, his parents basically told him lastnight that he had to pack his stuff and leave and that was that!

Now, I can't wait for that bitch to NOT be pregnant and of age! I wanna see her call me out then!

go. the family thinks she's a bitch so you can do no wrong. let Sierra cry her Thanksgiving away, be gone with her.

yeah, this is kinda old now....but thanks anyways...


she had the baby on 03/25/08...he is so freaking cute too!
shes still a bitch though...

don't worry, her kid probably has some fatal heart defect or genetic disorder.

It's not your fault that his family likes you. Tell that other girl that she needs to stop being a bitch and maybe people will accept her.