Necrotic Obsession

Why am I obsessed with my gay best friend? He hates girls, so he is NEVER going to be intrested in me. He is also physically and verbaly abusive and make me jerk him off and suck on him. Why can't I let him go and how do I get over this?

This one is another easy one.. You think that you can change this Homo back into a Man..... hahahaha these people are sick in the head.. Just look at it from a Real Mans Perspective..... I could not get turn on what so ever my another mans hairy ass... But let take it a little farther men for the most part are kinda rough and dirty.. and ladies and for the most part are soft and smell good.... If you are on of the Soft and smell good type and you are not a complete bitch and this guy is not into to you then there is something wrong with him... there is scientific proof that gay guys brains are different than straights so you could almost call it brain damage....I say if you are sick of the blow jobs and the Miami Heat move to were there are Real Men and you might find happiness and save your wrist's from corporal tunnel damage....... Your Welcome.... Da Creep

Are you fucking serious?
If he sexually harasses you, leave. Obviously he's not a very good friend.

I wish I was joking...

yeah, thats def NOT what a bff does...

so obviously hes NOT gay and obviously hes NOT your bff...


next time he makes you do it...bite his penis!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9znDG9tYXJ0

bahhh! i cant see it cuz im on my work computer and the site is blocked

i just watched...that was hilarious!

yeah she needs to do that!

it sounds like a good idea, but if I ever did that, he would beat the living shit out of me. Maybe kill me. Who knows.... but the same thing would happen if I didn't suck it...

ok. bite it off and he won't be able to do anything.

That's called rape.
Are you all there mentally? I'm not saying it to be rude. I just don't understand how if you are, you don't realize that what he is doing is wrong.
Report his ass to the police.

yeah bite it and run like hell!

i dont think hell be able to do anything after that though...hell prolly be on the floor, crying, and sceaming!

or you can use a taser on him....thats always works...

just act like your gonna do it and then BAM! zap his ass!!!

Yes, I am all here mentally. I actually think I am pretty smart. I know what he is doing is wrong, I just don't see a way out. Even if I do report him, he could bust me because when this started i was of age but he was still a minor, and they are going to say I shouldn't have done it. They are going to take his side of things not mine. And if I bite it, he WILL report me.

yeah not really. even if he was underage there's not much they can do about it now. just get a restraining order, get his ass in jail or just stop seeing him. it's honestly not that hard, what makes it hard is you like it.

Yeah, to me, the most obvious "way out" is just to stop seeing and associating with him. As SI mentioned, it would appear that this solution is mostly difficult or invisible to you because you've said you are obsessed with him and "can't let him go".

If you truly want out, then the logical option is there.

If it's a matter of being afraid that he'll report you for something like statutory rape, as you said he was underage when this started, well, one of the reasons this law is in place is because as the adult in the situation, you are held responsible for the decision(s) you made to engage in sexual activity with a minor, even if he initiated it or indicated that he wanted it.

In my opinion, it's your responsibility to face the potential consequences of your actions in this situation, and if you do stop seeing him and associating with him, and he DOES decide to initiate legal proceedings, well, you are entitled to present your case and defend yourself. This includes information pertaining to what you said about his verbal and physical abuse, as well as your statement about his "making you" engage in sexual activity with him.

All things considered, this does not appear to be a healthy or appropriate situation to continue being a part of.